Parenting Style in Malay Islamic Tradition (Study of Parenting Style in the Original Muslim Family of Palembang)

Abstract

This study aims to describe the parenting style of children in the tradition of Palembang's indigenous Muslim family and explore the Islamic values ​​contained in the parenting of the Palembang Muslim family. The approach used is a qualitative approach with a case study design. The study was conducted in Palembang City and the respondents of the study were four families with different characteristics. Data collection techniques used were in-depth interviews and observations, while data analysis used interactive analysis. The results of this study indicate that: 1) parenting in the Muslim family tradition of the Palembang native tribe tends to be democratic but a bit authoritarian and 2) Islamic values ​​contained in the parenting in the Muslim family tradition of the Palembang native tribe are seen from two aspects, namely aspects method and material. In the aspect of the method, parenting is applied by the native Muslim families of Palembang using the exemplary, habituation, and punishment and reward methods. In the material aspect, Islamic values ​​that are applied in the upbringing of the native Muslim family of Palembang include faith education, moral education, and social education.